I used to have two basic thoughts about self-confidence:1. It comes from being good at things.2. Some people were born with a lot, and some people weren’t.These thoughts hint at an explanation of self-confidence, but what if the story is richer and more stirring than that?What if self-confidence comes from the way we think about ourselves or what we tell ourselves when we try something and it fails?What if self-confidence comes from making commitments and
I remember the first time I worked with a life coach.I was nervous and excited.I had a relationship problem, and I wanted some help.I had tried everything I knew, but I couldn’t improve this relationship in the ways I wanted to. The only option I could see was to do more research, and that felt useless.When a friend told me about life coaching, I was curious, and I knew I wanted to try it.My first